Be the Change
How often do you talk yourself back into your limitations?
You have so perfectly practiced yourself to stay small and obey that self-limiting voice.
If you haven’t wondered about it before, then now it is time to think | ask some questions: ?
▪ who is doing that thinking
▪ from where does this voice come from
▪ why does it want me to stay stuck
▪ why am I listening and keep giving power to that voice
▪ when did it all start
▪ …
If you listen in, can you notice, that you can observe it?
And it always refers as “You or even We” not as “Me | I” .
That voice is the accumulation of all your past experiences, which didn’t go that well.
Actually it is trying to avoid you from getting more: hurt, disappointed, rejected etc (fill in whatever at any moment fits for you).
So in that larger scale of a picture, it is trying to help to protect you. Even though it’s negotiation tactics have evolved over time, the mind behind that voice is from the point and time of it’s creation, when you were born. Since that time frame you have observed and absorbed everything around you, good and bad - building your belief system.
Have you sometimes noticed getting into conversation in your head with that voice?
Doesn’t it happen when you try to reason it, when you try to make a change happen?
For example you want to lose weight, what talks do you start having in your mind? This voice pulls you one way and you reason it toward another. Meanwhile this situation starts delivering confusion in your head, which manifests in inconsistency in your actions. If you do not know any better or start losing motivation, this voice convinces you to listen to it.
This inner battle is an easy formula to keep you waiting for the change to happen from the outside.
Think about what that waiting is costing you.. yes, time. What about your unfulfilled dreams and unlived possibilities.. unlived versions of yourself..
Becoming, in order to Be the change, needs you to open the perspectives and allow healing to occur!
By default it also heals the past disappointments and traumas of that voice inside. By embracing this communication you are inviting in new possibilities and emotional intelligence. When releasing the emotional baggage, you bring peace to the inner dialogue. You change with ease and grace instead of inner debate and conflict. Your inner dialogue rearranges it’s belief system from fear to excitement for living, you take your power back and stop procrastinating.
I can help you facilitate that desired change to come around and remove long held resistance.
Love ♥ Light